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Allow me to offer simple ways you can fix it. A caveat: it took me about 10 years of dating somewhere around women—s I take no pride in whatsoever—to find myself firmly in a relationship again. But, I am in a relationship, so that automatically makes me more clear-headed than you. Consider me your friend who had to work late, has thus shown up at the bar sober, and who is trying to talk you out of going home with Dracula — as mysterious and handsome as he is.

For now, just hear me out. You hear it all of the time. In my experience, these qualities should be red flags, rather than beacons.

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Those in the former camp tend to use their pursuit of socially-constructed goals as a shield from the discomfort of introspection, while those in the latter camp are looking for new ways to distract themselves from the present moment. If anything, look for someone who challenges you as a human.

Someone whose attentiveness and consideration makes you call into question your own self-centered tendencies.

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I was once dating a really great woman. Then I found out she listened to Nickelback. I nearly instantly lost my attraction to her. So, he likes country music. So, she used to smoke cigarettes. Is that written in your DNA, or is it the effect upon your own self-perception — or the perception of your friends — that keeps you swiping again and again?

The answer to this question is guaranteed to lead to a conversation that is relevant to yourself and your well-being. That is, if you can bear to suspend your desire for constant distractionlook inward for a moment, and answer the question honestly.

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They get the message. These are all lies that we tell ourselves to avoid growing a spine and acknowledging the humanity of the other person. Not only was I a ghostee many times, I was I also a ghoster, until I learned my lesson. I had a great first date with a woman. She asked when we could see each other again, but we put it off.

2. stop having preferences that don’t matter

Eventually, she stopped responding to my texts. What I mean by that was she actually died. You are dealing with humans, not e-commerce items. I spent most of our first date—years ago now—struggling with Google Translate on my iPhone. After dating in the U. What I soon learned is the value of talking less.

What is dating, and what’s it for?

The words are taken at face value. When dating in the U. The aim was to ask more questions, and do less rambling. I usually failed. I could relate, because I often found myself guilty of the same. The cruel paradox of talking up a storm is that you leave the date being sure it went great.

Language is a technology, and it can be every bit as detrimental to communication as an iPhone. Say less.

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One woman I dated was astonished when I proposed a date, time, and location for us to meet up. So, I run the risk of sounding old-fashioned. Stop being a flake! For those who have the empathy of a Hyena, let me explain why this is important: When you make plans with a person, what happens is they then turn down other plans. Because people other than yourself sometimes matter. If everyone is flaking, you eventually learn to hedge your bets.

Missions and dating: the intersection of disparate longings

One friend of mine resorted to making arrangements for 2—3 different dates on a given night. Usually, all but one cancelled. Sometimes, they all cancelled. I never resorted to this, but it was a perfectly logical strategy. Stop the flaking.

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