A year-old black woman, she's already a prosecuting attorney in Atlanta and running for state court judge. Personable yet direct, Marchand isn't the kind of woman you find standing by passively on the sidelines of life.
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But you would find her, for example, at the Georgia Dome, cheering on the Atlanta Falcons pro football team. You've heard of a man's man. Marchand is the quintessential man's woman: She appears to have it all. And, yet, she's still single.
She has plenty of company. Forty-two percent of U. It's just not that easy. For starters, there are 1.
So even if every black man in America married a black woman today, one out of 12 black women still wouldn't make it down the aisle if they hoped to marry a black man. Let's take black men.
Single, black, female -- and plenty of company
By the time you eliminate those without a high school diploma 21 percentthe unemployed 17 percent and those ages who are incarcerated 8 percentyou have only half of black men, 54 percent, whom many black women find acceptable. There are a lot of women, though, who are trying to match up their education level, who are trying to match up their corporate status to find somebody on the same level, and they are having trouble.
That has nothing to do with manhood at all. If your requirement sheet is ridiculous, then you have to look at it.
'i was thinking, "what happened?"'
What "Nightline" looked at were the large s of professional black women who have groomed themselves for success with B. Seventy percent of them are still without the more elusive title: M-R-S. The tick-tock of the biological clock is a bit louder for many women, including several of Marchand's single friends who live in Atlanta.
Chato Waters is a year-old high school counselor pursuing a doctorate degree in psychology. Jakene Ashford is a chemist for a pharmaceutical company.
Is your requirements sheet ridiculous?
Now that she's 34, Ashford who is 5-foot-9 has lowered the bar when it comes to height requirements. And I used to, but then as I got older I said, 'Maybe if you are 6-foot-3, 6-foot-2, 6-foot-1, maybe if we can see eye-to-eye.
At issue is whether Ashford needs to set aside certain standards in order to make it down the aisle. Her parameters are pretty flexible. She's also open to dating outside of her race.
Dating while black
Indeed, the of black women entering interracial marriages has more than doubled in the past decade. Melinda Watson is a year-old payroll specialist who hasn't had an exclusive relationship since college. The consensus in this group was that their preference is to marry a black man. And it's not that they can't find one to date.
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The issue, in many cases, is exclusivity. Waters said, "That is the back-pocket girl.
Every once in a while, they will check in on you to make sure you are still single: 'You still single, you still waiting on me? Waters hasn't been in a committed relationship in more a decade. I am more at peace with just crying myself to sleep sometimes, or going everywhere with Jakene [Ashford], rather than just having that little piece of a man.
Harvey, the self-proclaimed expert on men, listen in as the single ladies talked about their requirements. As for the deal breakers, Watson said, "Just because of my past -- men with kids or just not being ambitious.
Ashford said, "If I don't have that initial chemistry, it's not going to work, I don't care if you have everything on the list. Waters said, "I am lonely, but having the faith I have and being the woman I am and waiting as long as I have, I can't settle now.
It's not an option for me. She's not alone.
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